I hate myself to be caught in between a quarrel. I find that is really difficult to think and decide. It just something that keeps bothering me. It is not that I want to be a busybody, but at least I could try to save the friendship between us. It would be not fair to me if both of my best friends quarrel.

Sometimes trivial matters could just blow up the whole thing. Speculations and rash decision always to be blamed. When they couldn't solve it, they tend to find someone for their opinion. Sooner or later, that person could be dragged in and the quarrel would be on the third party. It is always like that. Whenever, they could not find fault, they would use the third person as the main subject. That is why, I don't like to be caught in between the war.

Giving up on relationship can create some influential consequences especially BGR. Whenever, one is angry, he/she tends to make the decision so fast that they don't know what they are talking about. Later, he/she realises how deeply hurt it is when he/she ponders back what he/she just said. Although, apologising is a good way. It is a matter whether he/she may accept you or not.
When things get colder and colder, we need patience. In such circumstance, we might as well give up on him/her and settle with someone else. Those who truly value their relationship will treasure it no matter what happends. He/she could just wait and will slowly melt the ice. The process may be slow but will bring bright impact towards the future. Once the ice bond is melted, they could start all over again and be friends.

It really depends on the individual's attitude. Initially, after a fight, I admit that I couldn't trust him/her. I just couldn't. I wouldn't want to succumb to his/her lies again. Sometimes, the thought of it could make my scar burnt even more. Even though hurtful moments had etched themselves at the back of my head, I must still give him/her the chance to prove themselves. If they repeat the mistakes again, I see no reason why I should continue the relationship with them.

If they care less, why I should be worry about the unstability of the relationship. Why I should bother when he ignores his own responsibilities. I wouldn't want irresponsible person to ruin my life. It is just a waste of time and effort.
Good relationship means good understanding of each other.