I wasn't really sure what is the true feelings about falling in love. Yes, I have never fall for somebody, never. I think I was just too preoccupied with my part-time job and also preparing for school which starting in July. Whenever I saw couples holding hands, smooching away, I always thought, will it last? This question will keep playing in my head everytime I saw couples. Even marriage has a divorce. It was far more complicated. In my opinion, when one wasn't prepared to make that commitment, I suggest that person to focus towards important things. Besides education, you have to be financially stable. Only then, you could plan ahead easily with sound financial background. I agree that sometimes there is hardship and I know that life is not smooth sailing. It is the spirit that counts. Sometimes, couples tend to break up easily because they gave up on each other. That's pretty sad because it would make an impression that they couldn't care less about each other. Possesiveness is one kind of attitude. One good thing about possesiveness is that you care so much. On the other hand, when you are over possesive, you tend to limit one's right.

Sometimes, we have to compromise certain things. We just couldn't order somebody around or bossing away. While in relationship, there should be a breathing space, own free time, and get-together time. I always believe in this rule. Without breathing space, one would feel uncomfortable and can get fed up. With own free time, we feel a little bit of freedom and get-together time is the time when the two met each other. This is the time where both parties blurted out whatever he/she wants to say. I know that it is unreasonable to meet everyday because one day you might get bored when you meet up. Calling everyday can also be quite annoying. Even though many things happened in a second, I'm very sure not everyone going to talk an essay about the whole day.

Dating also have a lot of consequences. It is usual the men treats the lady on their first meal together. That's is perfectly fine. Especially when the meal can cost a bomb. But when it comes to everyday terms, I'm sure the poor men will go bankrupt. In my opinion, going on a dutch date is more logical because you still have this sense that you don't owe him/her anything. You just pay whatever you have eaten.

In most cases we are tend to be stubborn and just could not admit ourselves wrong. This is called ego. When our ego is high, we tend to think that we are more superior than the person we are looking at. Being egoistical, can be quite disastrous. In a sense when he/she ends up in a big quarrel, no one will give in and keep those raging arguments beyond control. It can come with being arrogant or a snob. One who thinks he/she is the perfect one. In this world, or I should say in this life, there is no perfect. Biologically speaking, humans are not that perfect. Even though actor/actresses have perfect good-looks, body, they would never have a piece of perfect life. There would always be some flaws. Even Archilles have flaws in his heels.

My advice to all who are having a relationship, rationalise before act it out. Think before act. Know the consequences before it is too late. Don't commit unless you are willing to risk what ever you've got. Believe me. Don't take the risk or you'll end up stressed up.

.:[Nassa]:.