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Hehehehe...I have been too free all the time despite some part-time jobs that keep me occupied for most of the week...

Well, today I didn't really bother talking to my dad...I don't know why...whenever he made my mum upset, I'm upset too...

He always make the silliest mistakes and giving a whole loads of headache to my mum...this is not the first time but I can tell that it will never stop...I just can't get it why men have such a high ego...I didn't deny that I'm not egoistical but not as egoistical as my dad...

The problem with my mum is that she will pour all her hearts out to me and I will give my 100% attention and my ears...the longest I had was yesterday...yeah, most of the time we have mother-son sessions that could last for hours...hahaha...

I couldn't do anything...I mean I'm not suppose to get involve in their kind of arguments...to me, arguments are nonsense...literrally.

I never allow myself to get carried away with arguments as arguments tend to be so destructive that it could tarnish a relationship...worst, it could make something irreversible...This is where the popular phrase, "Words is sharper than sword/knife"...

I don't deny that I keep arguing with my dad from time to time...whenever he is home la...so we don't always have the time to face each other...I don't mean to be unfilial so kids please be filial to your parents...(This is a stern warning!!)...I still care for him but he just doesn't realise it I believe...

I wish I could help but I'm suppose to stay put...I can't defend my mum when my dad verbally attack...he would rebutt me and would use his authoritarian voice which I myself have to oblige...Luckily, I never seen him getting physical...

Ironically, I felt that I inherited his ways...in a sense that, he never prolong an argument...He would do his signature wave it off...but for me, I would never engage an argument if it is a trivial one...so this one, it is my mother's traits...she would keep quiet and absorb and amazingly analyse whatever she's going to say...I admit that my mother can be quite a marksman in terms of words...she will hit it in the head...all she need is a perfect moment to let it off...when she do it, it is a bullseye

The point is, I love them both and I will forever...Just don't fight will ya...

With love,
your son....