I don't know whether I'm a S.N.A.G as my friend had defined his friend...
S.N.A.G = Sensitive New Age Guy/Gal, practically what it sums up for todays blog.
Honestly, I'm a sensitive guy but could take a pinch of salt here and there. I never go along with friends who doesn't really care for other feelings. Neither do I make fun of them due to their already tormenting predicament.
You see, I started a convo with a friend of mine who suddenly burst and complain due to his friend being oversensitive. I guess it all started with different kind of sms that always have the misleading factor. Have you ever encounter such things before? How could you tell the difference when someone trying to sms "Sorry. :p" and "Sorry!"? Which is one is more apologetic?
It is the same thing when you talk to someone over the phone. Every single intonation tells different story and the brain tries to decipher the underlining message. Let's say, gf/bf on the phone. In the heart, the girl trying to say something and yet the bf replies nonchalantly. The girl feeling irritated, hangs up.Sound familiar?
The point is that, don't tread on water that you are unfamiliar with. Don't poke your head into a beehive. Feelings are not toys that you can meddle with. Even words like "Thanks", "Sorry" have to think when to use them. Abuse those words, you'll get it.
Never express something that you never mean it. Don't put false front. I don't like it. If you think I deserved to be told off, hit it. I hate masked opera although I put up a lot of fronts. The fronts that I put up is just to make peace against my alter-ego and you. If I didn't, I blow up and hurting you and myself in the process. The ties that being hurt can never be the same again. I swear. The torment only starts when you start to regret all the moments that you hurled your unhappiness.
It always tears me apart. Have mercy on me!
Love your friends like your family. Never betray them for any reason.